advice Archives - Bi Women Quarterly

Of Two Minds About a Dear Abby Column

Jul 15, 2021 | 2013 Summer - What Happens Next? Pt. 2

By Robyn Ochs In a January 2nd “Dear Abby” column titled “Bisexual wife is of two minds about coming out,” Abby printed a letter from a bi woman: Dear Abby: After years of denial, I have come to realize I am bisexual. I’m...

Ask Tiggy: What Happens Next, pt. 2

Jul 15, 2021 | 2013 Summer - What Happens Next? Pt. 2, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, Just came out today as bisexual to my therapist and one friend. Not sure where to go...

Ask Tiggy: What Happens Next? Pt. 1

Jul 9, 2021 | 2013 Spring - What Happens Next? Part 1, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I just got out of a seven-year relationship with a man, in large part because I want...

Ask Tiggy: Mixed Marriages

Jul 9, 2021 | 2013 Winter - Mixed Marriages, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I’m a lesbian and I have been married to my bisexual partner for four years. For the...

Ask Tiggy: Mental Health

Jul 9, 2021 | 2014 Spring - Mental Health, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I just transferred to a new college and have experienced a huge amount of discrimination by both the straight and the gay communities. As a musical theatre major, I am used to a lot of tolerance. Here, however, I...

Ask Tiggy: The Bi Trans Connection

Jul 9, 2021 | 2014 Winter - The Bi *Trans* Connection, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, My local bi support groups are divided by gender. I’m bi and trans, and a bit...

Traveling with Your Toys

Jul 8, 2021 | 2015 Summer - Toy Stories

By Anonymous Traveler Are you ready to turn down the volume on your stress, and turn up the volume...

Leia’s Sex Toy Advice

Jul 8, 2021 | 2015 Summer - Toy Stories

The first sex toy I ever owned was given to me on my 16th birthday. It had started off as a joke between friends but I was excited to receive it. The friend in question wrote a cute set of instructions and drew some art...