Category: Ask Tiggy Upland

Ask Tiggy: Bisexual Enough?

Jul 15, 2021 | 2013 Fall - Bisexual Enough?, Ask Tiggy Upland

Ask Tiggy: What Happens Next, pt. 2

Jul 15, 2021 | 2013 Summer - What Happens Next? Pt. 2, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, Just came out today as bisexual to my therapist and one friend. Not sure where to go...

Ask Tiggy: What Happens Next? Pt. 1

Jul 9, 2021 | 2013 Spring - What Happens Next? Part 1, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I just got out of a seven-year relationship with a man, in large part because I want...

Ask Tiggy: Mixed Marriages

Jul 9, 2021 | 2013 Winter - Mixed Marriages, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I’m a lesbian and I have been married to my bisexual partner for four years. For the...

Ask Tiggy: Mental Health

Jul 9, 2021 | 2014 Spring - Mental Health, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I just transferred to a new college and have experienced a huge amount of discrimination by both the straight and the gay communities. As a musical theatre major, I am used to a lot of tolerance. Here, however, I...

Ask Tiggy: The Bi Trans Connection

Jul 9, 2021 | 2014 Winter - The Bi *Trans* Connection, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, My local bi support groups are divided by gender. I’m bi and trans, and a bit...

Ask Tiggy: Toy Stories

Jul 8, 2021 | 2015 Summer - Toy Stories, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I am 16 years old and I recently came out to my family as bisexual. My parents said...

Ask Tiggy: Religion/Spirituality

Jul 8, 2021 | 2015 Winter - Religion/Spirituality, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I realized I was bisexual during my sophomore year of high school but I never told...

Ask Tiggy: Intersection: Geography

Jun 26, 2021 | 2014 Fall - Intersection: Geography, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I recently discovered that I’m bisexual. However, I live in Pakistan. Here, sexuality...

Ask Tiggy: Intersection: Age

Jun 25, 2021 | 2014 Summer - Intersection: Age, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, Starting in my adolescent years, I experienced only “heterosexual” feelings. When I...

Ask Tiggy: Intersection: Age, Pt. 2

Jun 25, 2021 | 2015 Spring: Intersection: Age, Pt. 2, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I started questioning my sexual orientation when I was 15 years old. When I came out...

Ask Tiggy: Traveling While Bi

Nov 1, 2012 | 2012 Fall - Traveling While Bi, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I’m a 21-year-old female in college studying abroad. I’m unsure if I’m actually...

Ask Tiggy: Then and Now

Aug 1, 2012 | 2012 Summer - Then and Now, Ask Tiggy Upland

Dear Tiggy, I have known for a few years that I’m bisexual but have only recently begun to tell a...

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