The theme of this issue is “Relationships.” Readers were asked: “What is your ideal relationship configuration? Is it monogamous? Polyamorous? Solo? Are you currently in the type of relationship that is the same as your ideal choice, or were you ever? Describe the structure and fabric of your most treasured (or current) relationship, whatever form that may take.”
Peg and I have been in a relationship for 30 years and have been legally married for almost 22 years (thanks, Massachusetts, for being the first U.S. state to allow this). When we met, I had been happily solo for several years. I was not dating, and I was not looking. I was enjoying being in a primary relationship with myself for the first time in my life, and I was not interested in giving that up. Peg and I ended up forming a relationship that I jokingly describe as poly: I have two primary relationships—one shared with Peg and one with just myself. We have a lot of autonomy. We socialize together, and separately. We travel together, and separately. It works for us.
In this issue we will witness a multitude of perspectives on relationships expressed through words and through visual art. You’ll also find reflections on the new show Heated Rivalry, and more.
Please consider submitting your own writing or art for a future issue. Remember: If you rarely (or never) see people like yourself represented in print, your voice is especially important. When you lift up your voice, someone, somewhere will FINALLY see their own experiences reflected, perhaps for the first time. We are a global publication, and we’d love to hear from you.
Enjoy!
Robyn