Bisexual Problems

Mar 2, 2026 | 2026 Spring - Relationships, Poetry

By KimtheBwordpoet

I’m not good at conveying my needs
Since that would display a weakness for romanticism
But that doesn’t mean I don’t have feelings for you

What I want from this relationship is complicated to both me and you
But don’t ever forget that I do want to pursue a separate relationship with him
It doesn’t mean I’m greedy or confused; I just need a woman and a man in my life

I ask that you not use me to satisfy some curiosity and enhance your sex life with some man
Because I would never use you as a stimulant for my man
I want you for you and just for me; not to share with the other part of me

Complication is all I rule out—simplicity and affection will be a given
As long as you can handle being my number one woman while he’s my number one man
Sharing but not sharing is my philosophy; threesomes are not allowed

Open your mind to a new version of monogamy
Where you and he are both the stars
And I am the link keeping our chain of passions together

KimtheBwordpoet is a bi poet and writer from Cleveland, Ohio in the U.S. She runs Bisexual Initiative of Ohio—an up-and-coming organization for bisexual and bansexual Ohioans, and is a member of Alpha Zeta Gamma Sorority—a bisexual woman’s non-collegiate sorority.

 

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